What if the key to a fulfilling life isn’t about chasing success, but about discovering what truly makes you come alive?

Howard Thurman’s words challenge us to seek out our deepest passions, yet many of us stumble into them by accident—just as I did, twice. From an unexpected career in magic to a newfound love for writing, I learned that passion often reveals itself in surprising ways. But what if you didn’t have to wait for it to find you? What if you could intentionally uncover what sets your soul on fire? Let’s explore how to do just that.

Right to Dream: Career Advice for Queer, Non-Binary, and Transgender Young People

Too often, queer, non-binary, and transgender young people are left without the support and guidance needed to pursue their dreams. Many are simply trying to survive in a world that often pushes them to the margins. But survival is not enough—you have the right to dream, to build a future, and to thrive.

Finding a balance between identity and profession is challenging, but necessary. Whether you’re exploring career options, seeking mentorship, or carving your own path, the key is to take strategic steps toward financial security and long-term success. The road ahead won’t be easy, but you are strong enough to handle it. Your future is yours to build—step by step.

Trusting Your Power: A Message to Trans Women Navigating Love

When my friend Danni, a thriving real estate agent and transgender woman in her late twenties, called me, I could tell by her voice that something was wrong. She shared that she had ended her six-month relationship with a man she had genuinely envisioned a future with. The reason? His reluctance to show affection in public and his fear of what his clients might think if they knew his girlfriend was transgender.

"Why Cisgender Men Must Step Up as Allies to Trans Women"

Trans women are our daughters, sisters, and friends, deserving of the same love, respect, and support we extend to any woman in our lives. Yet too often, societal pressures and familial rejection leave them vulnerable to emotional and mental health challenges. Cisgender, straight men have a unique opportunity to provide the security and encouragement that so many trans women are denied.

In this post, we explore how fathers, brothers, and mentors can uplift trans women, offering emotional support, guidance in relationships, and mentorship in career paths. Allyship is not only about acceptance—it’s about action, advocacy, and building a future where trans women can thrive with confidence and dignity.

Watching my three-year-old grandson play with his Spiderman toys fills me with joy. His innocent enthusiasm and complete immersion in his tiny world remind me of something I’ve only recently embraced: the freedom to be playful and present. For much of my life, I struggled to fully experience joy, weighed down by challenges and circumstances I thought were beyond my control.

Through meditation and reading spiritual books like There is a Spiritual Solution to Every Problem by Wayne Dyer, I’ve realized my life was shaped less by external events and more by my perception of them. That shift brought me five lessons I wish I’d known earlier:

1. Challenges help us evolve. Life isn’t random—it unfolds to teach us lessons. Painful events often lead to growth, even if we can’t see it at the moment.

2. Joy is a choice. I’ve let others steal my joy, especially during heartbreaks. But I’ve learned that pain is temporary, and joy lies in choosing to embrace life’s opportunities.

3. Being seen is vital. I hid parts of myself out of fear of rejection. But the freedom to live authentically—to be fully seen—is worth everything.

4. Pain can serve others. Our struggles aren’t just for us. They equip us to support others in their darkest moments, creating connections that heal.

5. Everything will be okay—with time. Life often proves that unexpected grace follows pain, but we must remain hopeful and open to it.

These truths have transformed me. They’ve allowed me to meet life with freedom, peace, and a deep appreciation for simple, joyful moments—like watching a little boy pretend to save the world.

Douglas Bell shares his journey through a professional and personal crisis when his role at a long-time employer was devalued, leaving him questioning his identity and purpose. As his struggles seeped into his personal life, Douglas reflected deeply and realized his fear of change and attachment to past failures were holding him back.

Through moments of clarity in nature, he chose to embrace change, leave his job, and trust in life’s unknowns. Douglas Bell's story inspires readers to face adversity with courage, embrace transformation, and find empowerment in life's challenges.

Discover the Power of Transformation: Embrace Your Next Chapter

Have you ever felt that life could be more fulfilling? Like there’s a deeper purpose waiting to be uncovered? In 2018, after decades of a successful career in construction estimating, I faced the unsettling realization that I was at a crossroads. The pressure of my high-stakes role was no longer enough—something was missing.

Through daily meditation, journaling, and connecting with nature, I found the clarity I needed to pursue a new path: storytelling. My journey led me from uncertainty to discovering my true passion—writing novels. Today, I’m fulfilling a dream I didn’t even know existed.

You don’t have to wait until later in life to make a meaningful change. If you're ready to step into your next chapter, I invite you to explore the practices that helped me: daily meditation, journaling, and sitting quietly in nature. These simple, intentional actions gave me the space to listen to the universe and find my purpose.

Are you ready to listen to what life is calling you to do?

Discover how the simple practice of sitting quietly in nature, combined with daily meditation, transformed my life and reignited my passion for storytelling. Learn how these practices can help you find clarity, embrace your true self, and start living the life you truly desire.